About the Senior Living Truth Series
Honest Conversations that Make a Difference
Our Mission
The Senior Living Truth Series exists because the senior living space is confusing, sales-driven, and high-stakes.
Our mission is to provide clear, unbiased education so Oklahoma City seniors and their families can make informed decisions with dignity, confidence, and peace of mind.
We believe:
- You deserve the full picture, not just the parts that benefit someone else
- Planning ahead is always better than reacting in crisis
- The best decisions come from understanding your options, not from pressure tactics
- Every family should know what programs and resources are actually available to them
We're here for those who believe in having Plan A, Plan B, and Plan C — who want to look to the future with an "I can do this" attitude instead of fear. Because when you're prepared, everything changes.
Meet Your Hosts
Becky Seda
Becky Seda is a top 1% real estate professional in the Oklahoma City metro, known for her contract expertise, strategic problem-solving, and skill in complex transactions like probate, trust sales, and senior downsizing. She leads a specialist real estate team and owns Magnolia Move Coordination and Make Ready, as well as Senior Living Truth Series, providing expert guidance and meticulous, concierge-level service. Becky and her husband, attorney Roberto Seda, are active at Central Church of Christ in Moore and are raising three sons.
Roberto Seda
Roberto L. Seda is an experienced probate and estate planning attorney serving families across Oklahoma. As founder of Seda Law Firm PLLC, he brings clarity, compassion, and legal excellence to complex estate and probate matters. He serves on the Oklahoma Title Examination Standards Committee, is active in the Oklahoma Bar Association, and serves his community through leadership roles with the Central Church of Christ in Moore, Camp Lu-Jo KISMIF, the Oklahoma City Board of Adjustment, the Moore Chamber of Commerce Non-Profit Foundation, and the University Center Foundation.
What Makes Us Different
Senior Living Truth Series is different by design. We bring together experts in housing, legal, financial, healthcare, and logistics—because no single industry has all the answers.
Senior living decisions don’t happen in isolation. By connecting these perspectives, we help you understand how choices in one area impact everything else.
We also talk about what others avoid: emotional transitions, real tradeoffs, and long-term consequences that don’t show up in brochures.
Every seminar features trusted Oklahoma City professionals—not salespeople. There’s no pitching, no pressure, and no steering toward a single solution.
We’re not here to tell you what to do. We’re here to give you the clarity to decide for yourself.
Original Founders
Dr. Nikki Buckelew, Ph.D.
Chris Buckelew
Senior Living Truth Series was founded in 2016 by Chris and Dr. Nikki Buckelew, Ph.D., visionaries who believed seniors across the country deserved access to honest, unbiased education during life's most critical transitions.
What started as a local seminar series in Oklahoma City quickly became something bigger. Chris and Nikki saw that the need for clear, pressure-free education wasn't unique to one community - it was everywhere. Through their leadership of the Senior Real Estate Institute, they've trained passionate, senior-focused real estate professionals across the United States to bring their seminar model to their own communities, multiplying the impact and reaching thousands of families nationwide.
Their commitment has always been about more than real estate. It's been about dignity, clarity, and ensuring that seniors have the information they need to make confident decisions on their own terms.
The Buckelews' continue to serve by training real estate agents in Oklahoma City as well as in communities across the country where their model is changing lives, one informed decision at a time.